When it comes to women and dating, one of the most important things you can do is get good at meeting new people. You never know when that special one will come along. So getting your dream girl is not something you should be taking lightly. I will be giving you 5 keys to help snag the girl of your dreams if she just so happens to cross your path.
Number 1, get rid of the scripted material. These will screw yup up more than you know. You'll end up racing through the conversation and not paying attention to her at all. Have a framework in your head - and idea about how the conversation might go, but leave it at that. Keep it natural, last thing you want is to look like you're trying to hard.
Being a natural at dating girls can be achieved with a lot of effort and quite a bit of practice. One thing I will say is that you are going to get rejected so get used to it. The idea of picking up and seducing women and never facing rejection is a fable. Success and rejection go hand in hand - that's life.
Furthermore, stop being so nice. As the saying goes, nice guys finish last. The nice act is what gets you into the friend zone. That is not where we want to be. We want to be in her pants. In this case, we're going to reverse the usual process of pick up. We'll be humorus, playful, cocky, hard to get ect.. Nice guys are usually one dimensional and predictable - don’t be that.
Approach anxiety happens to everyone you’re not special. Start approaching one person a day and build up from there. This is a shortcut to decreasing AA. Opening tons and tons of of women in the beginning will get you nothing but a sore ego and a lot of flakes. More harm than good will come out of this and you will be sick of women, rejection and dating before you get started. Start slow and build your way up.
Part of being successful with women is being dominant. Nice guys are submissive. The guy who gets the girl is confident and in control. This means you have to be sure of yourself. If you try and fake it you'll lose. Girls and see right through it. You're "The Man," you need to believe this with every fiber of your being.
Looking great and being confident go hand in hand. How can you feel confident if you look terrible? You don’t have to go to fashion school but put some thought into what you’re going to wear. Have your shoes match your belt. Wear something that fits you well and that's in style. You don’t have to be trendy by any means. The most important key is to find a brand that fits your style and body.
Take a look at this dating guide, it's quite helpful.
Guys like to know if looks matter? I am going to say yes, they do, but it's more in how you display yourself. Style is more important than being genetically gifted - it's how you look and carry yourself that matters the most. What factors come into play then: are you in shape, are you well dressed, are you hygienic .
Men today are getting larger by the minute. It doesn’t hurt to be proud of your body. Go join the local gym and get your ass in shape, don't do this so much for other people, do it for yourself. I won't bore you with the great benefits of exercise and a fantastic nutrition plan though.
There you have it, 5 keys to getting your dream girl. Now go out there, get social, meet people and don't let the girl of your dreams pass you by.
